I learned to listen at a very young age in South Africa, where my father, a human rights lawyer, my mother an oncologist, and my two much older brothers were all compelling storytellers.
At medical school in Johannesburg, I learned the profound importance of listening to the stories of my patients.
After medical school, I left South Africa to train in acting at the Drama Studio London. It was there that I met the man who has been my husband, for over thirty years.
After medical school, I left South Africa to train in acting at the Drama Studio London. It was there that I met the man who has been my husband, for over thirty years.
At 24 years old I received a diagnosis which meant I would likely live only two more years. Little did I know then, that facing mortality at a young age would prove to be the great teacher of my life.
While we all face different circumstances, we are profoundly connected through our shared humanity.
We have a choice in how we story our lives. There are things that have happened to you, and only you, and telling these stories allows others to understand your unique experience.
Laughter is a great healer.
It takes practice to be grateful for life and all it brings.
As a therapist and guide I aim to build an authentic relationship with the individuals who sit across from me. There is no formula for doing this. Each person who consults me is unique, and I need to be flexible, finding a way to create a relational space that is safe and connected.
For some people this will mean my being quiet and reflective, and for others, personally open and interactive.
I am a doctor and therapist, and also a performer, teacher and storyteller. I have performed in venues across the world, and to all kinds of audiences, from a theatre on a London West End stage to a funeral parlor in Alexandra Township in South Africa; for audiences of people with intellectual disabilities in Croatia to sex therapists in New York City
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